40 Sex tips on how to rock in bed | Feature

While for some, talking about sex, sharing their desires may not require any effort, for most people, it still is an uneasy topic to talk about. This issue, we went around, asked our friends, readers and co-workers some tips on how to make the bed time even better. And, boy were we in for quite a surprise. Happy reading!

Girls have this misconception that boys only like to get down and dirty. I love it when my girl holds the back of my head gently when I lean forward to kiss her. It's tender yet super sexy!
Tenzin

I like it when my girl tells me what I am doing right and what I am doing wrong. Communication is the key to a great sex life.
Raj

Sexy stockings and a pair of sky high heels do the trick for me. Just seeing a girl in fish net stocking turns me on. Aahh!
Kevin

Nothing hotter than seeing my girl in my underwear. It's a great way to turn me on for round 2.
Ishwor

I like a woman who likes to experiment with different moves. Monotonous is boring
Tarun

Sex shouldn't be limited to bed only. Be adventurous. Do it on top of the table, under the shower, on the couch and if you are really in the mood try it in all three.
Ajay

Smooth shaved legs. That's all I ask.
Nyima

I know this sounds corny but I fantasize my girl wearing a completely wet t-shirt from which I could see her nipples. Major turn on.
JD

I would like to say men like to cuddle too. After we finish, I love it when the girl cuddles up to me and runs her fingers through my hair.
Ashish

I love it when my girl takes charge. Rather than waiting for me to take off her clothes, I like it when she strips me down and takes control. It makes me feel like she wants me as much as I do.
Roshan

Girls should learn to be more flexible and daring in bed. I wish my girl would let me watch her touch herself. There's nothing more satisfying than watching her make out with herself.
Surya

Lose all your inhibitions while in bed. Talk dirty. It may feel awkward initially, but the more you do it, you'll get used to it. While turning him on, you will find yourself turned on, too.
Lobs

Many men are actually worried about their package whether it fits the right expectations. If you do, then praise it. Tell him how much you like it. You will get his attention, for sure!
Kay

Don't be shy of 69. It leaves both the man and woman cent percent satisfied.
Rai

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You can always make sex more delicious by including food. Chocolate sauce, strawberries, cream does the trick.
Wang

Role playing is a great way to spice up your sex life. Pretend like you are strangers who just met at a bar. Get hot and heavy.
Yusuki

Don't just lay there when the man is doing his job. The worst feeling a guy can get is when the woman is unresponsive and acts like a corpse.
Ritik

Who doesn't like a sexy surprise? Men are beasts who are ready to do it any time of the day. So, call him up when he's least expecting it, breath the sexiest moan and say "I want you" and put down the receiver. Believe me; he'll come wherever it is you are.
Pasang

Once on my birthday, my girlfriend put on this sexiest piece of lingerie and performed a little striptease for me. It was so sweet of her and we had an amazing time later. So, dress to thrill and pull out those tantalizing moves and you will have your men shaking weak in the knee.
Manish

I don't like sex that is hurried. I like my foreplays to be long. Take your time. That's what I would like my man to do.
Bijaya

Don't laugh during sex. It's such a spoiler.
Tseten

A selfish lover is a complete no-no. If you want some action down there, you got to give some back too.
Kiki

Meet the eyes. I know at times it is awkward, sometimes embarrassing to make eye contact with all the weird sex face going on but keeping eye contact makes the whole thing more sensual and passionate.
Shreya

Most men think licking nipples will automatically turn on the girl but NO. It takes time for a girl to respond to such touches so don't go licking when she's not ready because that is just plain irritating and a turn off.
Kavya

I cannot stand it when my partner forcibly pushes my head down there. Subtle hints are enough, no force please.
Yuna

There's no denying the fact that kissing a woman's breasts is pleasurable for both the partners but don't take it to such an extent where 99% of the time your lips are on her breasts and only one percent of the time on her lips.
Leeza

I like it when a guy talks dirty. It's such a turn on.
Tina

Don't try being hardcore when you are just starting out with a new person. It is bound to scare her and she may consider never sleeping with you ever again. So, go slow, once you have the connection built then you can try being experimental.
Numa

Most women like men in uniform. Nothing hotter than a guy in a fire fighter outfit trying to seduce his way into you. Yum!
Grishma

There's nothing worse than the guy stopping in the middle to say his legs are aching. A complete mood spoiler, I tell you!
Tsering

If you finish early, don't just get up and say "Peace". The girl needs to be satisfied too. Finish your job like a man would.
Pam

One of the best ways to spice things up is to introduce foreign (sex) objects in the bedroom. A single toy can be used for both the partners and the pleasure it brings. Woof!
Umi

I know once we are in the moment, we want to rush things and just get to doing it but guys please, it only takes seconds to take off your socks. A naked man in nothing but socks is anything but sexy.
Bharati

Change your rhythm. Mix up your speed, and style. Sex tends to get boring when a guy is doing the same thing over and over again. Surprises are always welcome.
Jasmine

Don't name your penis, and don't talk to it. It's pathetic.
Himali

Thinking about your ex is the last thing I want to do when I am in bed with you. so, no ex-related conversations before, after or during sex. not at all!
Dipti

This is from a personal experience. I once had sex with a guy who had climaxed but I didn't know that so it was a bit awkward for a moment. It is very important to let the other person know you are climaxing- moan, groan, or do something non-verbally but let her know you are done otherwise it's just AWKWARD.
Reena

Men, men, men are all too inspired from porn no wonder they find it pleasing to come out on a woman's face. This is an absolute no. Why, you ask? Number one, I am not a porn star and number two, it is not sexy but disgusting so please don't pour your cum all over a lady's face.
Susie

We know men like to hit the sack right after sex but a little bit of cuddle goes a long way in making the girl feel good. Don't be lazy, even if it's just for a few minutes, warm up to her.
Kunchang