I took the wrong turn the other day in Babarmahal. It was early in the morning, there was little traffic and no policeman in sight. This will not hurt anyone, I thought, and will get me to my destination faster. But, no sooner than I was done turning, there came the whistle and the man in blue right in front of me. There was no unneccesary chit-chat and no hints for a bribe, just a straight fine for not respecting traffic rules. I felt good as I handed him my license because I didn't try to bribe him either. Later I went to Singhadarbar Baggikhana, paid my fine, Rs.200, and got my license back. I could have gotten away with Rs. 50 with the policeman, and no visit to the station. But I am glad I did that the right way and made me happy to have met a sincere individual of our administration. There is hope for us.
Few days before that, three young Nepali girls took a wrong turn too, in a crowded shopping centre in Norway. They had gone to represent their country, play football, spread goodwill and come back. Instead they deserted their team and chose to seek asylum. Their act further tarnished the image of Nepalis travelling abroad. Every time a group of sportsmen, musicians or dancers represent the nation internationally, the troupe always returns with a few 'missing'. This has become so commonplace that it doesn't even make the headlines.
Is this a time when we cannot see Nepal as a place where we can pursue our dreams? Is the only road to success pointing out of the country, anywhere but here?
This month, Temba Tshiri, another 16-year-old, made it into the Guiness Book of World Records as the youngest Everest summiteer: international recognition for the determination and endeavour of a young Nepali.
I will never again take chances with wrong turns. Let's hope the girls are aware of the consequences of their actions. They are fine players, best in the team, with good potential. If they are denied asylum in Norway we must not turn our backs on them. Their experiences, whatever the outcome, should teach us that despite the wrong turns we take, and the penalties we pay for our mistakes, it is never too late to turn around and head towards home.
-Yubakar
